Advice from a Senior Living Expert


Selecting a senior living community is not an easy task.  These are common questions we get asked.

My children live up north, should I move to be with them?  

As a son whose mom lives nearby, I truly understand the importance of having family close. Fortunately, we both live here in Southwest Florida, and we can be part of each other’s lives. The idea of moving out of state to be nearer to children is a big decision that involves many factors and changes. First and foremost, is the question of whether you are ready to give up your current lifestyle?  Do you have friends or a social network in their area, or will you be depending upon your children to provide you with the socialization you need?  Will you live with them, or will you find a place of your own?  You will need to think about changing your primary care physician and specialists, your bank, and your church.  How comfortable will you be driving during winter conditions?  Will the winter weather hamper your activity level and lessen your independence?  Are your children committed to continuing to live in that area, or could their careers take them to another location?  What happens if they retire, will they want to stay in that location?  As you can see, there are many factors involved in deciding to move closer to your children.  I would recommend before making that decision, to visit the senior living communities in this area.  You may be able to fulfill yours and your children’s desire for security and peace of mind without such a drastic change.

If I move to a senior living community, do I need to change doctors?

When you live at a senior living community, you can continue the relationship you have with your primary care physician and specialists. As a convenience to the residents, many communities do have relationships with physicians and these doctors maintain clinic hours at the senior living community. You are under no obligation to use these doctors; however, residents find it time saving and worthwhile to establish a relationship with a physician on site. If you decide to keep your physician, most senior living communities provide transportation to and from your medical appointments to make life a little easier for you.

I want to move to a senior living community, but my husband does not.  What should we do?

It is very common for one spouse to not be on the same page as the other when considering a senior living community.  Many times, it is hard for someone to think forward and contemplate scenarios when they are less independent.  Most likely, your current residence will not be suitable as you advance in age.  It is not sensible to believe your health will remain as it is for the rest of your life.  Share with your husband that not putting a plan in place now would place the entire burden on your shoulders if something should happen to him in the future. It is easier to make the move when you are both able to select a community together, sell your home together, pack and move together, and make new friends together. Hopefully, he will recognize the importance of protecting you and creating a life which you both can continue to enjoy for many years.

There are so many senior living communities to consider in our area, where do I start?  

Locating a senior living community that meets your needs and preferences is not easy, especially if you try to do it alone.  As a senior housing advisor, this is exactly what we do. We get to know you and discuss which options best fit your needs and preferences.  We are familiar with all the options in the area and the nuances of each. We help you narrow down the search and create a road map of places that meet your requirements.  We are also familiar with the new communities on the horizon and have much insight about a community’s operational history. If desired, we can join you on your tour and ask questions you may not know to ask.  We help you understand the terms of the contract and even negotiate the fees, as appropriate. Trying to do it alone is a monumental task. The last thing you want to do is move somewhere and be unaware that the community is experiencing financial or operational issues. Taping into a knowledgeable resource will help you avoid these pitfalls.

Please explain how the refund programs work at Continuing Care Retirement Communities (CCRC)/ Life Plan Communities?   

CCRCs/Life Plan Communities offer a variety of entrance fee refund programs – 0%, 50%, 75% and even 95% refunds. The entrance fee is typically earned by the community at a rate of 1% to 2% per month. There is usually a 2% to 4% administration fee earned during the first month.  Each month that you live at a CCRC, a percentage is deducted (earned) from the entrance fee that you paid.  If you select the 0% refund plan, your entrance fee refund will decline over 4 – 7 years until your refund reaches zero. On the other hand, if you select the 50%, 75% or 95% plan, your estate will have a set amount refunded.  If you opt for a higher refund program, you will pay an “up charge” for these plans as compared to the 0% refund program.  Basically, you pay more upfront to be guaranteed a higher refund.

Some communities will offer different refund programs based on their health care plans. For example, a community might offer a 95% refund, but you would also be responsible for paying for higher levels of care as needed.  It is wise to consult with your attorney and financial advisor to determine which plan best fits your needs.

Are there resources available for low income seniors in our area?

Collier Senior Resources at the Golden Gate Senior Center has funding to provide financial assistance to low-income seniors in need. Call Maritza for more information at 239-252-4550.  The Area Agency on Aging for Southwest Florida is another valuable resource.  The Area Agency on Aging is committed to connecting older adults and adults with disabilities to resources and assistance for living safely with independence and dignity. They can be reached at 239-652-6900.

Are there any upcoming educational seminars for area seniors?

The Leadership Coalition on Aging (LCA) is conducting their Empowerment Series Panel Discussion on Sept. 13 from 1:00 p.m. to 3:00 p.m. at the Collier County South Regional Library.   The topic will be Advanced Planning – Getting your Affairs in Order.  It will feature an attorney, a physician, an accountant, and a real estate professional.  The event is free.  For more information, please call 239-595-0207.

To have your senior housing questions answered in a future article, please submit your questions to:  [email protected]  

Senior Housing Expert and Advisor Bruce Rosenblatt is the owner of Senior Housing Solutions. 




Sleep Disorders for Seniors

Sleep Disorders for Seniors


Good health is directly connected to good sleep, and poor quality of sleep and not enough sleep can have negative effects on health. This is especially true for seniors who commonly experience sleep disorders, take medications, and have chronic health issues like heart disease and diabetes, among other conditions — all of which can impact sleep.

Source: Washington Post

According to the National Sleep Foundation (NSF), more than 44 percent of seniors experience one or more symptoms of insomnia at least a few nights during the week. The NSF also reports that snoring alone is a common sleep disruption for more than 90 million American adults.

Sleep patterns change with age, and are also referred to as “sleep architecture.” Sleep patterns for the elderly cause sleep to become lighter with more frequent waking up during the night.

One study reports that seniors make the following complaints about sleep:

  • Increase in time to fall asleep
  • Less time spent asleep
  • Increase in number of awakenings
  • Too much time spent in bed
  • Less satisfied with nighttime sleep
  • Significant increase in daytime sleepiness
  • Napping more often and longer

This guide was developed to provide helpful information and tips focused on aging and sleep for seniors. Topics that we will explore include:

  • The importance of sleep for seniors
  • How sleep changes as you age
  • Common senior sleep problems
  • Top sleep tips
  • Tips for creating a sleep routine
  • Additional sleep resources

Why is sleep important for seniors?

Sleep requirements are different from person to person, and the Center for Disease Control (CDC) recommends 7-9 hours of sleep for adults over 61-64 years old and 7-8 hours of sleep for adults 65 and older.

This infographic from the National Sleep Foundation shows how sleep changes throughout a person’s life span.

Source: National Sleep Foundation

Both the amount of sleep and quality of sleep are important factors that contribute to overall health and well-being, including memory, mood, and weight. Healthy sleep also helps reduce the risk of accidents and allows the body to rest and heal.

Insufficient sleep can cause weight gain, and good sleep helps people maintain a healthy weight. Poor sleep is also known to cause a lack of motivation to be active. Difficulty falling asleep and sleep disturbances can prevent a good night’s sleep, which can cause more accidents or falls, mood problems, depression, depression, and anxiety.

Signs of poor sleep include an increase in the time it takes to fall asleep, less REM sleep and slow-wave sleep, and frequent waking up during the night.

Sleep can also affect memory, and the National Institute of Health reports that this connection may help explain why seniors are often forgetful. As people age, the brain deteriorates, and changes in sleep patterns result in less slow-wave activity, which is important for memory performance. As sleep deteriorates with age, memories are more difficult for the brain to store during nighttime sleep.

How sleep changes as you age

Physical changes occur as people age, and have a direct impact on sleep. Some sleep issues are directly related to aging, while other issues seniors experience are not age specific, and could be experienced by people in other age groups.

In addition, sleep needs change based on gender, genetics, a person’s internal clock, quality of sleep, and recent lack of sleep, according to WebMD.

Changes in sleep related to aging:

  • Wanting to go to bed earlier and get up earlier
  • Spending more time in bed to achieve a full night of sleep because it takes longer to fall asleep and waking up disrupts sleep
  • Change in sleep architecture that causes lighter sleep with more frequent waking up
  • The amount of time sleeping declines as people age
  • Memory loss due to decrease in the amount of slow-wave restorative sleep
  • Trouble sleeping because of symptoms of chronic health conditions or medications
  • Awareness of being awake
  • An abrupt change between sleeping and waking up

Changes in sleep not related to aging:

  • Having trouble falling asleep
  • Having trouble staying asleep
  • Going to bed later because of daytime napping
  • Staying awake due to worry and anxiety
  • Staying up later because the bed or bedroom is used for more than sleep (example: watching TV, being active with personal devices like cell phones, tablets, or computers)
  • Having trouble focusing because of insufficient sleep
  • Trouble with comfortable sleep due to hormones or pregnancy

Common sleep problems for seniors

Sleep problems are a reality for 40 percent of the elderly, and can include everything from frequent waking up during the night, to daytime fatigue, to irritability and light sleep. Many of the sleep problems are due to aging and the changes that occur in sleep patterns — causing more frequent waking up and lighter sleep.

Many times, seniors experience extreme daytime fatigue which can prevent them from participating in normal activities. With much of the elderly population reporting poor sleep, a relatively small percentage of seniors have diagnosed sleep disorders and are prescribed sleep medications.

In this part of the guide, we will explore the different kinds of senior sleep disorders and problems, plus possible treatments.


Insomnia is defined as difficulty staying asleep or falling asleep. People with insomnia have symptoms including poor moods, fatigue, and low energy, and also have a hard time concentrating and performing regular daily tasks. The effects of insomnia can take a toll on overall health and well-being.

The National Sleep Foundation reported that a poll showed that nearly 40 percent of older people were more likely to wake up a lot at night as compared to younger people.

Some treatment options include:

  • Psychological treatments include a positive and consistent sleep routine or hygiene; and therapies like cognitive-behavioralsleep restriction and stimulus control; and relaxation techniques like breathing exercises, meditation, and guided imagery, among others.
  • Medications that aid sleep are either non-prescription or prescription medications. Prescriptions drugs include benzodiazepines, non-benzodiazepines, and antihistamines. Before seeking treatment for insomnia, it is recommended that seniors consult with their doctor. Medications prescribed or recommended may vary based on symptoms of insomnia.
  • Alternative treatments can include herbal supplements like melatonin, valerian root, or chamomile; physical exercise; acupuncture, yoga, massage, and relaxation techniques.

Sleep apnea

Sleep apnea is a sleep disorder in which breathing stops and begins again during sleep. This stopping and starting can sometimes occur hundreds of times each night. Sleep apnea can be caused by blockage of the throat airway or because the brain fails to signal muscles to breathe. Sleep apnea can result in a decrease in the amount of oxygen a person gets. Symptoms include snoring, gasping for air, headaches, and daytime sleepiness, among others.

Sleep apnea affects between 13 and 32 percent of older adults who are 65 or older, according to this study. In fact, 22 million Americans suffer from sleep apnea. Learn more from our sleep apnea guide.

Some sleep apnea treatment options include:

  • Sleep studies monitor sleep by observing heart rate, sleep state, eye movement, muscle activity, oxygen levels, and airflow, among other functions. These studies are conducted to help diagnose sleep apnea and inform the treatment plan and severity of the disorder.
  • Continuous positive airway pressure device, also known as CPAP, is a mask designed to fit over the nose and mouth. It provides a gentle airflow to promote the airway to stay open during the night and sleep. This treatment is highly recommended and effective.
  • Lifestyle changes are also recommended for those with sleep apnea. Losing weight, quitting smoking, changing sleep positions, and avoiding alcohol may help reduce sleep apnea.
  • Dental devices and surgeries are also options for sleepers with sleep apnea. These appliances help restructure the positioning of the tongue and lower jaw to promote more consistent and open airflow. There are also some surgeries that can be performed to remove tissue in the airway, for example.


Narcolepsy is a neurological sleep condition that causes a person to fall asleep very suddenly at any time without advance notice, as well as excessive daytime sleepiness. This could happen while performing regular activities, like working or driving, and can be dangerous. This condition launches sleepers into deep REM state sleep (dream-stage sleep) in about 10 minutes, as compared to the regular 90 minute timeframe it takes to reach REM sleep. A less severe condition related to narcolepsy is hypersomnia, which causes chronic sleepiness even if a sleeper has gotten enough sleep the night before.

Narcolepsy affects 1 in every 2,000 people in the U.S, which is about 200,000 Americans and 3 million across the world. Learn more about narcolepsy in our guide to narcolepsy.

Although narcolepsy cannot be cured, there are some treatment options:

  • Medications like amphetamine-like stimulants that help keep the body awake; antidepressant drugs; and a drug called Xyrem that is designed to promote better sleep at night to reduce sleepiness during the day.
  • Lifestyle adjustments can help people with narcolepsy, and include avoiding alcohol, nicotine and caffeine; and implementing a regular sleep routine including a consistent nap schedule, exercise, and healthy eating.
  • Support and support groups are also important for those who suffer from narcolepsy. Talking to people you know about your condition is key to your safety.

Restless leg syndrome

Restless leg syndrome (RLS) is a disorder that causes people to have an uncontrollable urge to move their legs during rest. The condition interferes with sleep, and can also occur when people are sitting for long periods of time. In addition to the urge to move the legs, people also experience a crawling or itching feeling in their legs.

This study reports that RLS increases with age, and older adults experience the condition more — with rates between 9 to 20 percent. In addition, women are affected by the condition twice as often as men.

Similar to RLS, periodic limb movement disorder (PLMD) is when movements are involuntary and cause jerking or twitching, and tightening or flexing of muscles. This disorder also increases with age.

Some RLS treatment options include:

  • Medications for RLS include drugs that increase dopamine in the brain, affect calcium channels, opioids or narcotics, muscle relaxants, and sleep aids.
  • Lifestyle changes also help treat RLS. Using heat or cold packs and taking warm baths and massaging legs may help soothe the muscles and reduce sensation. Relaxation activities like yoga or meditation can help relax seniors before bedtime. A good sleep routine with consistent bedtime and a healthy sleep environment is important for RLS. Exercise can help relieve symptoms, and people with RLS should avoid caffeine.


Snoring is a harsh or hoarse sound that happens when breathing is obstructed or strained, and can cause sleep to be disturbed. It happens when the tissue in the throat vibrates as air flows by, causing an annoying sound. Snoring can also mean a person may have a more serious disorder, and can cause daytime sleepiness; trouble with concentration; mood or behavior issues, like anger; and an increased risk of high blood pressure, stroke, and heart conditions.

The National Sleep Foundation reports snoring is an issue for 90 million adults, and for 37 million of those adults, snoring is regular.

Here are some treatments for snoring:

  • Lifestyle changes include losing weight to promote easier airflow in the throat; sleep position training; proper allergy treatment; and avoiding alcohol.
  • Surgery is also an option, and is performed on the back of the throat and roof of the mouth, or even the nose.
  • Dental devices are usually constructed by dentists who are experts in treating sleep apnea and snoring. There are also appliances called nasal dilators.
  • Continuous positive airway pressure device, also known as CPAP, is a mask designed to fit over the nose and mouth. It provides a gentle airflow to promote the airway to stay open during the night and sleep. This treatment is highly recommended and effective, and prevents the airway from collapsing.

Excessive sleepiness

Excessive sleepiness is not a disorder, but a symptom that can be caused by a number of things. The most common cause is unhealthy sleep habits. These include:

  • Insufficient or not enough sleep
  • An irregular sleep schedule
  • Sleep disorders
  • Medications
  • Other medical conditions

People with excessive sleepiness may feel fatigued, irritable, moody, and have trouble concentrating.

This sleep problem can have negative effects on quality of life, and can prevent people from participating in regular activities. One study reports the following factors are linked to this disorder:

  • Pain or physical discomfort
  • Wheezing at night
  • Medication use
  • Male gender
  • Apnea
  • Percent of time in REM sleep
  • Depression
  • The frailty syndrome
  • Diabetes

Some treatments include:

  • Lifestyle changes include a healthy sleep routine and environment and stress management.
  • Continuous positive airway pressure device, also known as CPAP, is a positive approach for those with sleep apnea who experience excessive sleepiness. The mask is designed to fit over the nose and mouth and provides a gentle airflow to promote the airway to stay open during the night and sleep. This treatment is highly recommended and effective, and prevents the airway from collapsing.
  • Medications that promote wakefulness and improved sleep may be used, and can include stimulants.

Common causes

Common causes of senior sleep problems and disorders include the following:

Lack of exercise

If seniors don’t move very much and are mostly sedentary, it is common for them to feel wakeful instead of sleepy. Regular physical activity during the daytime expends energy and can help promote good sleep.

Sleep disorders

Sleep disorders like RLS, snoring, or sleep apnea are more common for seniors.

Lack of sunlight

The sun can help seniors differentiate day and night and also helps regulate melatonin. Older adults can use a light therapy box, keep shades open during the day, or spend time outside.

Chronic pain

Chronic pain, including osteoarthritis, may keep seniors up at night due to the nagging nature of the ongoing pain.


Women may experience hot flashes and sweating at night that can interrupt sleep and cause sleep problems.

Neurological disorders

Disorders like Alzheimer’s and Parkinson’s contribute to sleep problems, and insomnia specifically is very common among seniors with these conditions.


Side effects of some medications can impact sleep for seniors.

Poor sleep routine

Inconsistent sleep routines and an unhealthy sleep environment can cause sleep problems. Healthy sleep routines include consistent bedtimes, no daytime napping, and the right mattress, among others.

Daytime napping

Napping during the day can prevent seniors from feeling sleepy before bed, and can contribute to sleep problems.

Medical conditions

Heart and lung conditions, especially, can affect breathing, which can have a negative impact on sleep. These also include heart failure and chronic obstructive pulmonary disease.

Urinary problems

Getting up to go to the bathroom at night can disrupt sleep for seniors. This can be caused by drinking too much water too late at night, or other conditions like an enlarged prostate or an overactive bladder.

Reflux problems

Heartburn symptoms can keep elderly people up at night, and can be caused by diet and eating big meals too late at night.

Mental health

Extreme worry, anxiety, or depression can prevent seniors from sleeping and may cause sleep disturbances.

How to set up a sleep routine

Creating a healthy sleep routine is key for seniors in getting quality sleep. A sleep routine includes everything from your daily diet and exercise, to your mattress and pillow, to your bedtime.

Specific tips for creating a healthy sleep routine include:

Select the right pillow and mattress for you

Your pillow, mattress, and bedding are key in creating a healthy and comfortable environment for sleep, and foundational to your sleep routine. See our guides for details on the best kind of mattress for each kind of sleeper (backsidestomachcombination), and check our mattress reviews to learn more about different mattresses on the market.

Create and keep a sleep diary

A sleep diary will help you document your daily habits, and can help you track your bedtime routine so you can remember and evaluate when you wake up, dream, or when your sleep is disturbed. The National Sleep Foundation offers a free diary template online.

Eat a healthy, balanced diet

For some seniors, a poor diet may be linked to a loss of taste, loss of smell, dental problems, depression, or a decrease in appetite. A healthy diet is essential in getting the right amount of vitamins and nutrients, and impacts overall well-being and sleep. Seniors may want to consider supplementing with liquid nutrition and vitamins.

Source: National Institute on Aging

Get physical exercise each day

Physical activity is important for all people, and especially seniors. Staying physically active can not only prevent some chronic health conditions, but it also helps seniors reduce weight gain, which can lead to several senior sleep problems. Exercise also helps seniors burn energy and feel more tired at the end of the day.

Avoid nicotine and caffeine

Stimulants like nicotine and caffeine impede sleep, keeping seniors awake. Both nicotine and caffeine can keep people up at night in addition to causing insomnia, less sleep, and withdrawal. Cutting back or avoiding both stimulants all together will help promote healthier sleep.

Reduce alcohol consumption

Avoiding alcohol or limiting it to no more than half a glass is recommended to not interfere with healthy sleep. The old concept of having a “night cap” before bed does not result in better sleep, rather sleep becomes more disrupted because sleep patterns are affected by alcohol.

Avoid daytime napping

Daytime napping may prevent seniors from getting to bed and getting a good night’s rest. Naps can increase the symptoms linked to insomnia, which can cause seniors to be irritable and have a difficult time concentrating.

Create a safe space if you experience sleep disruptions

If sleep disruptions affect you, it’s important to ensure your sleep environment is safe in the event that you wake up and get out of bed. Sleep disorders like insomnia, sleep apnea, restless leg syndrome, and even Alzheimer’s can prevent seniors from getting a good night’s sleep with frequent waking up during the night. Seniors should consider the following tips:

  • Keep a phone and emergency contacts by the bed
  • Have a lamp nearby that is simple to turn on
  • Keep a glass of water next to the bed to quench thirst in the night
  • Refrain from smoking, especially while in bed
  • Remove tripping hazards from the floor near the bed, like rugs, furniture, or articles of clothing

Limit electronics and screens before bedtime

Exposure to the lights of the screen of a TV, phone, or tablet will promote a wakeful feeling. To promote healthier, more restful sleep, it’s important for seniors to limit screen time before bed, and to avoid screen time while in bed.

What your sleep environment looks like

The following factors contribute to rest and relaxation in the bedroom sleep environment:

  • Temperature
  • Your mattress, pillows, and bedding
  • Light
  • Noise
  • Smells

To promote healthy sleep make the following true for your bedroom each night:

  • Make your bedroom for sleeping only
  • Create a calm, relaxing environment that makes you think of sleep when you enter the room
  • Keep temperature cool
  • Make sure your mattress, pillows, and bedding are right for you and are kept clean
  • Keep your room dark, with no lights to distract from rest and sleep, including light from TVs, phones, and tablets
  • Prevent noise pollution from disrupting sleep, and consider a white noise or nature sound maker
  • Make your bed in the morning

Avoid these things in your bedroom

The following items could prevent healthy sleep, and should be avoided in your sleep environment:

  • Food
  • Smoking
  • Alcohol
  • Loud noises
  • Bright lights
  • Distractions like work, TV, or activities

The top 10 sleep tips for senior citizens

Consider these top tips for seniors for getting healthier sleep. These tips can also help seniors with common issues that may prevent healthy sleep, like anxiety, worry, and excess energy, among others.

  1. Pick the right pillows and mattress for your preferred sleeping position.
  2. Turn your bedroom into a sleep sanctuary free of screens like TVs, phones, and tablets
  3. Pick a consistent bedtime and wake-up time and stick with it
  4. Exercise during the day to use energy and wear yourself out
  5. Avoid afternoon naps that make falling asleep before bedtime difficult
  6. Take time to relax before bed with a soothing bath or by relaxing your mind
  7. Have a light snack at bedtime
  8. Drink less fluid at night to prevent getting up to go to the restroom and disrupting sleep
  9. Limit alcohol, nicotine, and caffeine before bed
  10. Don’t lie in bed awake and do something else until you feel tired

Additional sleep resources for seniors

The resources below provide more information about the following sleep topics for seniors:

  • Ways to improve your sleep routine and aids to help sleep
  • The most common sleep disorders and how to identify them
  • Clinical studies about sleep specific to seniors
  • Best practices for healthy sleep habits
  • Where to go if you need help for sleep issues

Sleep aids for seniors

  • The Mayo Clinic provides information specific to sleeping pills, and recommends the best way to determine what’s right for you. The Mayo Clinic is a highly trusted resource.
  • WebMD recommends natural sleep aids and remedies, and details effectiveness and risks for each aid or remedy.
  • This Huffington Post article highlights 13 top natural ways to fall asleep faster.  The article attributes much of its information to doctors and credible sources.
  • Consider these helpful “Tips to Help You Fall Asleep” from the National Institute on Aging.

Sleep disorders

Sleep studies

  • This study explores “Normal and Abnormal Sleep in the Elderly” and sleep disorders, plus possible treatment options.
  • Addressing sleep over an entire lifespan, this study explores changes in sleep due to aging and confirms an increase in sleep latency and a decrease in slow-wave sleep that is common for seniors.
  • This study shows that older adults with low sleep efficiency have double the risk of mortality, and explores the long-term effects of poor sleep on overall health.

Sleep habits

  • This WebMD article is written by a doctor who details simple ways, including behavioral changes, to address sleep issues that are common for seniors.
  • Harvard University’s Healthy Sleep website details changes in sleep as people age, and includes a video that talks about the importance of paying close attention to healthy sleep habits with age to balance biological changes.
  • addresses lifestyle habits that can impact sleep and recommended habits for getting better, healthier sleep.
  • The National Sleep Foundation gives advice on how to cope with sleep issues.

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Locally owned and operated.  What does this mean to you?

Locally owned and operated.  What does this mean to you?

Locally Owned and Operated

Senior Housing Solutions is locally owned and operated.   We have been proudly serving Lee and Collier counties since 2008.  Being locally owned and operated, what does this mean to you?

Firsthand knowledge

One of the most important aspects of being locally owned and operated is our firsthand knowledge of all the senior living communities in the area. We make it our passion to get to know each community in the area so we can provide you with expert advice on which community best fits your needs, lifestyle and finances.  We stay current on pricing, availability, operational and staffing issues as well as trends in the market place. Yes, you can try to do it on your own, however wouldn’t it better to make one phone call and find the right solution? Being a qualified resource to you is our core mission.

Quality reputation

Our reputation is everything to our business. Since 2008, we have established ourselves in the local community as a qualified and trusted resource.  We are not a franchise and are not controlled by any outside influences. We build trust with our clients and from that relationship, we grow our business through referrals.  We also partner with other quality businesses in the area and support them in their efforts.  In fact, our online Eldercare Directory is a free resource for people looking for reputable businesses that we feel comfortable recommending to you.

We live here

We are residents of SWFL and are familiar with the wonderful lifestyle in our area.  We dine at the same restaurants as you and play golf and tennis at similar clubs that you belong.  We watch our amazing sunsets and walk on our beautiful sandy beaches. We attend the same cultural events as you and participate in local charities and religious events along with you. Our parents and our friends live in this area too.  We understand why you enjoy this lifestyle and want to maintain it.

Personally, I have lived in this area since 1992 and Peggy has lived here since 1974. I am a native Floridian and a graduate of Florida State University. My dad was one of the first men to attend FSU (which was originally a college for women).  I have a unique connection with our Florida history and a special appreciation for the Florida nature and ecosystem.


Dear to my heart is our desire to give back to the community.  During Hurricane Irma, I personally volunteered with Operation BBQ Relief and served over 126,000 meals to people in need to people in our area and in Keys. We are active in our places of worship and donate either monetarily or with our time to many worthwhile causes in the local area. Being community-minded is who we are. It defines our character and provides a solid foundation with the people we serve.

Advocate for area seniors

As an advocate for local area seniors, I have served on the board of Area Agency on Aging for Southwest Florida, Jewish Family Services, Napes Interagency Council and the Retirement Housing Council for the State of Florida.

We are proud to support the many seniors and their families in the area and look forward to building even stronger ties in the greater community in the future.