What are some of the unexpected perks that can accompany living in a retirement community?
The Hidden Benefits of Retirement Community Living
The COVID-19 pandemic highlighted just how damaging isolation can be, especially for older adults. Social isolation has been directly linked to increased risks of loneliness, depression, and even cognitive decline, including dementia. As human beings, we are inherently social creatures. We thrive when we’re connected to others.
One of the greatest advantages of living in a retirement community is that you don’t have to be alone. You can maintain your privacy as much as you like, but you also have immediate access to social connection—whether that’s dining with friends, joining group activities, or simply participating in daily life with others around you. Retirement communities are designed to foster engagement, connection, and a sense of belonging.
In fact, research into successful aging consistently points to one key pillar: having a sense of purpose and community. Living in a retirement community offers both. It’s an environment where residents can contribute, connect, and continue growing—socially, emotionally, and intellectually.
Another primary reason people choose to move to a retirement community is for future peace of mind. Knowing that care will be available when and if you need it removes the uncertainty of “what if?” This not only reduces stress for you but also eases the burden on your spouse and family members. With the logistics of future care handled, you’re free to focus on what really matters—enjoying life and embracing all your community has to offer.
As many of my clients have said, “It was the best decision we ever made—we just wish we had done it sooner.”
How can a senior make the most of living in a retirement community?
Words of Wisdom from Someone Who’s Helped Many Make the Move
Having guided many individuals and couples through the transition to senior living, I’ve gathered a few pieces of practical advice worth sharing:
Don’t Wait for a Crisis
One of the most common regrets I hear is, “I wish we had done this sooner.” Don’t wait for a health scare or emergency to force your hand. Begin the process early, while you still have the time, energy, and options to make a thoughtful decision. As I tell my clients… “It’s always better to be five years too early rather than 5 minutes too late!”
Move as a Couple, If You Can
If you’re part of a couple, making the move together—before care is urgently needed – can make the adjustment easier and more rewarding for both of you.
Make the Decision Yourself
It’s your life, your future, and your choice. While input from adult children can be helpful, the final decision should reflect your own preferences—not someone else’s idea of what’s best for you.
Downsize Intentionally
Apartments in retirement communities are typically smaller than your current home. Start the downsizing process early so you’re not overwhelmed later. Sort, donate, and simplify. And remember: Your kids probably don’t want your stuff!
Commit to the Move—Fully
“One foot in, one foot out” doesn’t work.
Some people choose to keep their primary home “just in case” they don’t like their new community. While that may seem like a safe backup plan, it often leads to a sense of hesitation or emotional limbo.
To truly thrive in a retirement community, you need to commit with the right mindset. Success comes from being open to new routines, relationships, and possibilities—not constantly looking back or second-guessing your decision. Give yourself the chance to fully embrace the lifestyle, and you’ll be far more likely to enjoy it.
Embrace Community Life
Living in a retirement community is different from living in a private home. There will be shared spaces, social events, rules, and routines. It may feel like a big shift at first—but give it time. Be open to new people and experiences. You just might find yourself more engaged and fulfilled than you imagined.